Unstoppable You with Evelyn Kelly

33. The Never-Ending Journey of A Perfectionist

Are you a perfectionist? Or perhaps you don’t identify as the “stereotypical perfectionist” but perhaps you have perfectionist tendencies in some areas of your life? If you’re here then I bet you’ve got some sort of perfectionism tendencies that play out in your life that aren’t really supporting you. Sometimes it feels like a never-ending battle right? Today I share… How perfectionism is essentially living from a place of fear or lack. How you choose love over fear instead How leaning into trust is the best anecdote to perfectionism How your crazy high expectations of yourself perhaps need some addressing How to avoid the ‘never-ending battle’ of perfectionism and start living a life of love, trust and gratitude.   Don’t forget! If you’re interested in working with me in 1:1 coaching, then now is your chance!! I am running my first Discovery Call Day all year and I’d love to invite you to jump on a free 30min call with me to chat about coaching and how I can support you. Just click the link below to book a time.  LINKS: Book your free Discovery Call Website: https://www.evelynkelly.co.nz/ Instagram: @evelynrobertakelly Join my Free Facebook Community Group Join Cool, Calm & Confident, the 21day programme to build inner confidence and connection HERE  

32. How to Manage Other People’s Expectations of You

I am answering this highly requested question in today’s episode! How to manage other people’s expectations of you. Truth bomb – in short, you can’t. But actually what this really means is that you’re a people pleaser and deeply care about what other people think of you. You’d love to learn to somehow manage other people’s expectations of you so that you know that you’ll be loved + fit in. Am I right? Today I talk about… How we can’t manage other people’s expectations of us How we can clearly communicate expectations in a work environment How your desire to manage other people’s expectations of you is actually more a form of people-pleasing and wanting to accepted and loved. And I get it! What to do if you’re so focused on other people’s expectations of you. When you should consider your OWN expectations of yourself and how to tweak them so they’re supportive. I also share some powerful journal prompts I highly recommend using to support yourself with this Don’t forget! If you’re interested in working with me in 1:1 coaching, then now is your chance!! I am running my first Discovery Call Day all year and I’d love to invite you to jump on a free 30min call with me to chat about coaching and how I can support you. Just click the link below to book a time.     LINKS: Book your free Discovery Call Website: https://www.evelynkelly.co.nz/ Instagram: @evelynrobertakelly Join my Free Facebook Community Group Join Cool, Calm & Confident, the 21day programme to build inner confidence and connection HERE

31. My Most Vulnerable Episode Yet!

Welcome back to the podcast! It’s so good to be back with you today with a new episode! This is by far the most vulnerable episode I have ever shared on the podcast or anywhere online before! Truly. Today I am talking about my experience with grief. I recently lost someone really close to me and I have known for a while that I wanted to create a podcast on this topic but didn’t know how. What would I share? How do you find the right words? And in all honesty, I am not sure I have the words, but for now, this is my showing up fully, sharing openly, and sharing my truth. I would love for us all to be brave and talk about the hard topics in life more, including grief, because I believe we don’t talk about it enough. So, this is me, being the change I want to see in the world. Sharing my heart with you. Talking about the hard stuff. Disclaimer: I am not a counselor, psychotherapist, or psychologist. I am purely sharing my own personal experience and thoughts on the topic and hope that it inspires someone else and opens up the conversation more. Big Love, Evie x x   LINKS: Book your free Discovery Call Website: https://www.evelynkelly.co.nz/ Instagram: @evelynrobertakelly Join my Free Facebook Community Group Join Cool, Calm & Confident, the 21day programme to build inner confidence and connection HERE

30. First Quarter Check-In: Update From Me, Lessons From My Wedding + Time for YOU to Check-in With Your Goals for the Year Too

Welcome back to the podcast! I am recently back to coaching and podcasting after two weeks off for my wedding and honeymoon and wanted to share a little life update from me. Today I am sharing some of the biggest lessons from my wedding, because I always love hearing more behind the scenes into people’s personal worlds, so I hope it’s interesting for you all. It’s also past the first quarter of the year (how wild is that!?), so I am doing a check-in with my goals and planning for the next quarter in my life and business. I really encourage you all to do the same to ensure you’re not living life on auto-pilot and instead, living with intention. In this episode, I share some of the key journal prompts or questions you might like to use to do a similar check-in for yourself. Enjoy!     LINKS: Book your free Discovery Call Website: https://www.evelynkelly.co.nz/ Instagram: @evelynrobertakelly Join my Free Facebook Community Group Join Cool, Calm & Confident, the 21day programme to build inner confidence and connection HERE

29. Navigating Life Lessons with Elaine Willmott

Today I am joined by fellow life coach, Elaine Willmott. In this conversational style podcast episode Elaine and I are talking about how to navigate through life lessons, what a lesson from the universe looks like, how to recognise them, why they can circle back around, and how to best move through them with love. This is such a great conversation and I am so excited for you all to listen.   LINKS: You can find Elaine at www.elainewillmott.com Instagram www.instagram.com/elaine.willmott/?hl=en Book your free Discovery Call Website: https://www.evelynkelly.co.nz/ Instagram: @evelynrobertakelly Join my Free Facebook Community Group Join Cool, Calm & Confident, the 21day programme to build inner confidence and connection HERE

Q & A with Evie

Welcome back to the podcast! Today’s episode was so fun to record! It’s a Q & A with me where I am answering all of your questions that you submitted over on Instagram! Enjoy!   LINKS: Episode 9 - 30lessons in 30years Book your free Discovery Call Website: https://www.evelynkelly.co.nz/ Instagram: @evelynrobertakelly Join my Free Facebook Community Group Join Cool, Calm & Confident, the 21day programme to build inner confidence and connection HERE

27. Money Mindset with Nicole Alesios

Today you’re in for a treat! I have a beautiful Nicole Alesios joining me on the podcast today talking all things Money Mindset. Nicole shares about the 8 different money personalities, the strengths of each type, and how to align your strengths to your workplace. What roles and business types may be best aligned to your money personality. How to price yourself and your services if you’re in business. How your belief about your worth is so tightly linked to your money mindset. And how to create an abundant money mindset! It’s safe to say, Nic knows her stuff!   LINKS: Book your free Discovery Call Website: https://www.evelynkelly.co.nz/ Instagram: @evelynrobertakelly Join my Free Facebook Community Group Join Cool, Calm & Confident, the 21day programme to build inner confidence and connection HERE Nicole Alesios website www.nicolealesios.com/ Nicole Alesios Instagram 

26. Growth Happens in the Journey, Not the Outcome

Welcome back to the podcast and to another juicy D&M with Evie, where I am sharing the truth about transformation! Sometimes growth is uncomfortable, it’s scary as and we have to run back into the fire in order to change, to be able to hold more. But it’s SO worth it! I share some of my own personal examples of periods of my life where I have had to run back into the fire in order to up-level. I share how so often our minds make it seem far worse than it actually is and that it’s really only short-term discomfort for long-term gain. If you’ve got unlived potential in you, then this is absolutely a must-listen!!   LINKS Book your free Discovery Call Episode #7 Own Your Worth with Emilia Francesca Website: https://www.evelynkelly.co.nz/ Instagram: @evelynrobertakelly Empower & Elevate with Evie - Join my Free Facebook Community Group Join Cool, Calm & Confident, the 21day programme to build inner confidence and connection HERE

25. Human Design with Cat Skreiner

Welcome back to the podcast! Today I am joined by the incredible Cat Skreiner talking all things Human Design. Cat is an energetic business strategist and Human Design guide who works with heart-centred entrepreneurs seeking to embody their unique design to achieve more ease, flow and abundance in their personal and professional lives. She fuses her 14+ years in digital marketing with Human Design & Gene Keys to help clients catapult their business success and drive impact in their business through the integration and embodiment of their unique energetic gifts.   If you have never heard about Human Design before or want to explore your unique design more, then you’ll love this introductory episode into Human Design.   You can find Cat online at: https://www.catskreiner.com/ or on IG https://instagram.com/cat.skreiner    LINKS Book your free Discovery Call Website: https://www.evelynkelly.co.nz/ Instagram: @evelynrobertakelly Join my Free Facebook Community Group Join Cool, Calm & Confident, the 21day programme to build inner confidence and connection HERE

24. Comparisonitis – How To Stop Comparing Yourself To Others

Today, on the podcast, I am answering a listener’s question I received on Instagram stories – "how do I stop comparing myself to others?" Which is such a great question and I know so many of you can relate to this topic and so I know this an episode to come back to time and time again as a reminder. And while you’re here, please share this episode with other people in your world that you know could really benefit from this episode, it’d mean so much to me! Today I’m talking about… Comparisonitis is just ‘mind games’ that your inner critic is creating in your mind I challenge the idea of if we can actually compare ourselves to others because we actually don’t know any of the ‘behind the scenes’ into their lives. How social media and I highlight reel and we rarely see the shadows + darkness Your thoughts and belief system influence what you ‘see’. Start looking for evidence of what you choose to believe in, instead Your conditioning and societal conditioning influence the ‘standards’ or the things we’re comparing ourselves to, so I challenge you to consider what do YOU believe? What’s YOUR truth?   LINKS Book your free Discovery Call Website: https://www.evelynkelly.co.nz/ Instagram: @evelynrobertakelly Join my Free Facebook Community Group Join Cool, Calm & Confident, the 21day programme to build inner confidence and connection HERE